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If You Love the Child Please Learn to Be a Lazy Mother
By Emma111 @ 8:12 AM :: 61 Views ::
0 Comments ::  :: Parenting
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Introduction: A lot of mothers sigh with feeling: why are children getting more squeamish? Why do they increasingly depend on their parents? Why are they increasingly lack of sense of responsibility? In fact, it is parents themselves that make children lack independence and sense of responsibility.
Not long ago, I took my daughter Gege to Hangzhou to travel by motor car. Everything in the motor car is very fresh for her and she broke off the active table with her hands that had been closed. As a result, when the table fell, it just hit her nose, so she cried with wah-wah because of pain. I asked her: “Has the small table hit you and made you feel pain?” Gege said: “Yes.” I asked her again: “Who made the small table fall?” Gege said: “It’s Gege.” I said: “Then why are you crying?” Gege immediately realized that it was her responsibility, and stopped crying at once.
I said: “You can rub at your nose with your small hands. Mum will teach you how to put a small table down while not hit yourself.” So, I demonstrate to her: with one hand to open the small table, and then with another hand to hold, then slowly put it flat. I let Gege demonstrate twice. I asked her: “Will It hit you now?” Gege said: “not anymore.”
Many mothers sigh with feeling: why are children getting more squeamish? Why do they increasingly depend on their parents? Why are they increasingly lack of sense of responsibility? In fact, it is parents themselves that make children lack independence and sense of responsibility.
The truly successful love of parents is to let the child separate from your life as an independent entity as soon as possible. The sooner this separation occurs, the more successful you are. Therefore, the diligence of mother is just a kind of emotional love, a low-level performance of lobe. “Lazy” mom may seem cruel, but wise laziness is a kind of rational love, which is a higher-level performance of love. If you really love your children, it is better to be a “lazy” mom.
Every time Tory thought of playing online game, he is so excited. He could win almost every match. Do you know why? It is because it is easy for him to get wow gold and RuneScape gold. |
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